Last week, in something of a fatigued state of affairs, I walked around all day wearing two pairs of disposable contacts in each eye. For the life of me, I couldn't figure out why I couldn't see properly! I only realized my mistake when it was time for bed and I had to remove my contacts to rest my eyes for the night. :-)
Hyper-clarity can thus lead to blurriness. If you're TOO clear about what's going on in life, chances are that you're actually seeing things through two pairs of contacts in each eye. Now, more than ever, I'm beginning to grasp the importance of accepting the unknown. Of "rolling with the ocean," if you will. Honestly, as much as you think you might know what's going on, chances are that there is something that you aren't aware of that will have an impact on your existence.
Sometimes surprises surprise you without warning. I guess that's what makes them so surprising? I'd rather have less than 20/20 on these things than attempt to go through life with the two-contact deal happening... just saying!
Friday, September 30, 2011
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Was it Something I Said?
Sometimes I wonder what goes wrong in those pre-relationships that end up leading absolutely nowhere. You know what I mean... you're talking to each other every day, and it seems like you're starting to get to know each other quite well. You're smiling, and feeling encouraged to think in new ways. You realize that you want to see more of each other, and maybe even make some tentative plans to do that. But then...
Notta.
The beginning of the end [of the relationship/friendship/acquaintance-ship that wasn't] can start with a bizarre excuse, or with complete silence... like someone just decided to hang up on you forever. :-S Not to be melodramatic, but in this sort of situation I am left with one main desire, and that is to know the truth. Why the 'no-talkety?' Was it something I said??? How can I improve my shoddy ability to establish relationships in the future if I have no idea what keeps going wrong?
Enlighten moi... if you happen to speak whine-ese.
Notta.
The beginning of the end [of the relationship/friendship/acquaintance-ship that wasn't] can start with a bizarre excuse, or with complete silence... like someone just decided to hang up on you forever. :-S Not to be melodramatic, but in this sort of situation I am left with one main desire, and that is to know the truth. Why the 'no-talkety?' Was it something I said??? How can I improve my shoddy ability to establish relationships in the future if I have no idea what keeps going wrong?
Enlighten moi... if you happen to speak whine-ese.
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